The December Dilemma
12/08/2022 04:09:41 PM
“Oh, the weather outside is muggy,
And sadly, it’s still buggy.
But as long as you re-member
It’s December, it’s December, it’s December.”
Well, I may not be a great song writer, but I do know that it’s the time of year...Read more...
Hebrew School, it is awesome.
12/01/2022 03:48:51 PM
Shalom Chaverim,
One of the absolute privileges of my work here at CBI is the opportunity to teach a Dalet (6th grade) Hebrew class on Wednesday afternoons. Some of you might remember your own Hebrew school experiences as young children. Some of you might be experiencing this phenomenon through your children, for the first time and some of you might have all of this behind you as...Read more...
“Being a Great Ancestor (Like Abraham)”
11/17/2022 10:13:13 AM
One of my favorite wise sayings is this: "The finest achievement to which one can aspire is that of being a good ancestor." That's not an exact quotation, and it grieves me that I can no longer remember where I first heard it, but it reflects a deep and uplifting truth, whatever the original source might be.
At the beginning of this week's Torah portion, Hayei Sarah (the Hebrew means, The Life of Sarah), the...Read more...
The Gift of Life
11/10/2022 09:20:59 AM
This week marks the annual Organ Donor Shabbat, a time to honor those who have given the gift of life to others with their own body. To celebrate those who have given this gift, Adam Sadovsky, CBI past president shares his experience with donating stem cells. Please consider participating in the Jewish value of P’kuach Nefesh, “preserving a life” by joining an organ donor or living donor registry.
So, this journey begins in...Read more...
Have a little faith
11/03/2022 07:55:46 PM
What would you do if someone told you to pack up all of your things, get in your car, start driving, and just keep going until you’ve reached an unknown destination? Would you do it? Would you stop and think for a moment about whether it’s a good idea? Would you refuse?
In this week’s Torah portion, we meet Abram and Sarai, Judaism’s first ancestors. Abram, who later...Read more...
Parking Lot Shabbat - Friday, November 4 @ 6:30 p.m.
10/27/2022 01:35:47 PM
“If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have to keep moving forward.” – Martin Luther King Jr.
In just four days it will be Monday, October 31st. The one-year anniversary of the evening when an arsonist, full of hate for us, attempted to burn down our synagogue. I will forever feel gratitude towards...Read more...
Sleepovers and Radical Amazement
10/20/2022 06:34:48 PM
I saw a post somewhere on social media a couple of weeks ago relating to our just-concluded festival of Sukkot. It pointed out that in our tradition, the ten days from Rosh Hashanah to Yom Kippur are ones in which God says to us, “Get your act together! Do teshuvah!” Then comes Sukkot, the post continued, when God says to us, “Enough of that! Now… Step outside!”
As I pointed out on Tuesday night to our Living...Read more...
Becoming Ushpizin
10/12/2022 03:24:49 PM
Moadim L’Simchah! It’s hard to believe that we’re halfway through the wonderful celebration of Sukkot and just days away from Simchat Torah. Time has flown by these past few weeks. They’ve been a whirlwind of prayer, joy, community, and gratitude. As we continue to experience the wonder of Sukkot, I’m reminded of the lovely tradition of inviting ushpizin into our midst.
What, or rather who are ushpizin? This Aramaic word for “guests” refers to the people we welcome into our Sukkah in order to provide them with hospitality, a meal, shelter, a place to celebrate the joy of the holiday. In some traditions, ushpizin are spiritual guests, such as our matriarchs, patriarchs, and other ancestors we wish to bring into our Sukkah.
Read more...Gratitude
10/06/2022 10:59:49 AM
Shalom Chaverim,
Much of our t’fillah (prayer) is gratitude-focused. In fact, if you have ever joined us for Shabbat morning worship OR, in these past 10 days, Rosh Hashanah or Yom Kippur morning services, you would have prayed these words firsthand. We thank God for everything from our bodies working to our souls being returned to us to being made b’tzelem Elohim (in the image...Read more...
For the love of Elul
09/14/2022 04:05:15 PM
Last week, I looked up at the full moon and realized that we are halfway through the month of Elul. After a brief moment of panic, I remembered that this month is more than a time of frantic preparations for the High Holy Days; it’s an opportunity for personal introspection and reflection.
It might sound a bit funny, but as a rabbi, it feels harder to find moments to...Read more...
"So, Rabbi, Are You Ready for Rosh Hashanah?"
09/08/2022 01:42:40 PM
The question that forms the title of this blog post is one that I am asked fairly regularly at this time of year. It most often pops up when I run into someone in the Jewish community at the grocery store, and it is most often offered with a good-natured and sympathetic smile, knowing what a busy time of year this is for rabbis. My two favorite answers to this question are as follows:
"Ready for Rosh Hashanah? No! But then, who...Read more...
Welcome to the month of Elul!
09/01/2022 12:53:27 PM
This past Shabbat we welcomed in the new Hebrew month of Elul with psalms of praise and special Torah and haftarah readings. In the special verses that made up the maftir (end of our Torah reading for the week) we were instructed regarding the sacrifices to be made:
“On your new moons you shall present a burnt offering to Adonai: two bulls of the herd, one ram, and seven...Read more...
Goodbye, summer!
08/24/2022 03:27:06 PM
Annnnddd, we’re back!
To school, that is. So many of our students have returned to their classrooms, ready and engaged for a new year of learning. With the new year comes excitement, energy, anxiety, and exhaustion. And, this year, there is a sincere hope that we can return to some semblance of “normalcy.”
With the current case numbers of...Read more...
How a summer adventure inspires Selichot programming.
08/18/2022 12:48:56 PM
While on vacation this summer we dedicated 48 hours to “let’s see where the road takes us.” We left my parents home on the shore of Lake Huron, stopped in London, ON (my birthplace) to pick up my mother-in-law and then ventured onward.
Jonathan found a new Craft Gin Trail that took us first to Stratford, home of the Stratford Festival, Ken’s Chip Wagon, and Justin Bieber....Read more...
Shabbating
08/11/2022 10:48:23 AM
Like many working professionals I struggle with maintaining healthy boundaries between my vocation i.e. how I make money and the rest of my life. As a proud Gen Xer, I count myself as lucky to have experienced a part of my career (I got my first email account when I was 27 and my first cell phone when I was 30) when it was expected that if you were not physically AT work then you were not working. It was also unacceptable, in the first decade...Read more...
Turning Mourning into Action
08/02/2022 03:51:22 PM
“By the rivers of Babylon, there we sat down and wept, when we remembered Zion” (Psalm 137:1). Like many of you, when I read this well-known verse from Psalm 137, I immediately think of this version by Boney M. from 1978. The upbeat tempo and catchy melody are beautiful, but don’t really express the devastation behind the words.
In just a few days, we will commemorate Tisha...Read more...
"Hello Mother, Hello Father..."
07/28/2022 02:20:00 PM
As I mentioned in my previous blog from July 7, I was fortunate to spend 12 days at my home away from home, Greene Family Camp. While I have spent many, many summers at GFC, this one was unlike any other, in particular as I watched hundreds of campers and staff sing their hearts out while wearing masks.
And yet, the magic of camp still remained. The joy of bringing my daughter with...Read more...
Introduction to Interim Executive Director
07/20/2022 03:07:12 PM
Hello CBI Community.
Please allow me to introduce myself, my name is Sera Bonds.
I am a: mother, southerner, Jew, activist, public health devotee, surfer, sci-fi geek, founder, wanderer, community organizer, lover of naps and swimming holes, rainmaker (i.e. fundraiser), daughter, sister, friend, and wife. Not always in that order, of course.
And I am currently serving as the Interim Executive Director...Read more...
A Talking Donkey?!
07/13/2022 04:48:31 PM
Inarguably, the most famous talking donkey of our modern time is the creation of DreamWorks Shrek named, simply, Donkey. Since he first made his appearance on the big screen in April 2001, the word donkey has become synonymous with Eddie Murphy’s voice: “You might have seen a housefly, maybe even a superfly but I bet you ain't never seen a donkey fly." or “…and in the mornin' I'm makin' waffles." or “You...Read more...
Summer means CAMP!
07/06/2022 04:52:46 PM
Many of you know that I grew up just down the road in San Antonio. That also means I had the privilege of attending Greene Family Camp each summer as a kid and later, as an adult. This Saturday, I will head back up I-35 to my home away from home for my 17th summer at GFC.
Camp has always been a huge part of my life. It helped shape my Jewish identity, it gave me the confidence to...Read more...
Modim anachnu lach...
06/30/2022 11:07:55 AM
In our Shabbat morning liturgy, we find this beautiful poem on the theme of gratitude:
FOR THE EXPANDING GRANDEUR of Creation,
worlds known and unknown, galaxies beyond galaxies,
filling us with awe and challenging our imaginations,
מודים אנחנו לך
Modim anachnu lach, (we thank You)
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"Speaking Your Truth, Standing Your Ground, Honoring Your True Name"
06/23/2022 05:01:44 PM
In the anthology of midrash called Koheleth Rabbah ("The Great Midrash on Ecclesiastes") we find a well-known rabbinic proverb about names:
“A person has three names:
one that they are called by their father and mother;
one that people know them by,
and one that they acquire for themselves.
The best of these names is the one we acquire for ourselves.”
The significance of the first two...Read more...
Some Thoughts on Juneteenth
06/16/2022 09:14:55 AM
Do you know the date that enslaved Africans were legally freed by the Emancipation Proclamation?
Answer: It was New Year's Day, 1863.
Now another question: Were enslaved people in the US set free on that date?
Answer: No. Freedom was a process. It started in the North and as you traveled South, the acknowledgement of that new reality was not simple. Making it happen...Read more...
"Summertime, and the livin' is easy"
06/09/2022 04:37:13 PM
Even though we haven’t quite reached the summer solstice, with the temperature soaring into the 100’s every day this week, it’s safe to say that summer is officially here! And of course, summer brings a plethora of bugs, outdoor activities, and my favorite: the Book of Numbers.
Just last week, we started this new book of Torah. It is my favorite book because of the amazing...Read more...
"I'll Take Jewish Holidays for 500, Alex"
06/02/2022 05:48:54 PM
Imagine a Jewish person named Charlene. Charlene is a contestant on the classic game show, Jeopardy. Imagine that one of the categories that day is Jewish Religion, and that she decides to go for broke and take "Jewish Holidays for 500."
Alex Trebek (may his memory be a blessing) says, “Sukkot, Simchat Torah, Purim, Yom Hashoah and Shavuot.”
Charlene confidently mashes her buzzer and declares, “What...Read more...
Chazak, chazak, v'nitchazeik
05/26/2022 10:39:13 AM
This past Tuesday, May 23rd – three years ago - was a monumental day in our family’s history. Our daughter, Rebekah, attended her last day of middle school. Here is what I wrote to go along with a photo of her first day of kindergarten and, of course, a photo from that last morning of middle school:
“In order to have a new beginning there needs to be an ending. Today is not...Read more...
We Will Not Go Back
05/19/2022 09:59:38 AM
Just a few days ago, I had the great honor and privilege of speaking at the Jewish Rally for Abortion Justice in Washington, DC. I was asked to speak because of the work I do to help promote reproductive justice and freedom in this country, but also because I serve as a rabbi in Texas. Along with my friend and colleague, Rabbi Josh Fixler (Congregation Emanu El in Houston), we spoke to thousands of Jews who support...Read more...
Finding Holiness
05/05/2022 03:26:28 PM
Our Torah portion for this week, Kedoshim, begins with the following words:
“Adonai spoke to Moses, saying: Speak to the whole Israelite community and say to them: You shall be holy, for I, your God Adonai, am holy.” (Leviticus 19:1-2)
What follows are several verses of commandments...Read more...
Challenging Torah Makes for Good Conversation
04/28/2022 02:54:03 PM
We’ve reaching the moment in Torah that I personally dread reading, more than any other verse in the entirety of our sacred text. As I explained last week during Friday night services, we are reading the second half of Parashat Acharei Mot in order to align our weekly Torah reading with the rest of the Jewish world.
This half of the portion is filled with laws and commandments...Read more...
Making Your Teacher Proud
04/20/2022 10:26:54 AM
Dear Friends,
A Rosh Hashanah sermon that I delivered a number of years ago explored the bonds of mutual respect and mutual affection that – in the best of circumstances, at least – exist between teachers and their students. In that sermon, I retold a story about John Wheeler, of blessed memory, a brilliant physicist who was for many years was on the UT faculty. According to the story, a young person once asked Professor Wheeler...Read more...


